Anonymous asked: Course ur not. I was only trying to help. I am sorry!
Yeah no, I’m sorry too. I know you were just trying to be helpful - sorry I snapped at you. S’all good, babe. <3
Anonymous asked: Hey hey Vee, I'm on a long break from uni now and I have decided to push back my worries as to the outcome of my exams but I thought of it earlier today and so I am, I think, reasonably worried for my results because I know how I let fear control me by not focusing on the books long enough to study. I did mostly last minute preparations and I'm pretty sure I did poorly for a paper. I'd be 23 next year for me to sit for the re-sits. I wish I could get a proper hold of this anxiety-ridden th
thoughts that were prompted by an ex boyfriend. I dislike how despite him not being in my life anymore, he still has control over me and that leads to me not moving forward soon enough in academic terms. I’m not even so much concerned about myself now, I worry about how my parents would feel, knowing that their child who is now an adult, cannot move forward academically and hence has to resort to giving excuses. I suppose I could use this break to study whatever I feel I should 2 prepare myself.
With those 2 messages sent, I hope you would be able to send me words of positivity and encouragement because they would be greatly appreciated.
Don’t worry what other people think. I know that feeling tho - I owe my parents a lot and I always feel like I don’t do justice to their support and upbringing. It’s a really sick feeling. But the best you can do for yourself is just focus on moving forward. Give it everything you’ve got, and if it’s not enough then it’s alright.
There’s still time to change. I think if you constantly dwell on your failures or how things have gone wrong in the last few years, you will drag that kind of negative thinking into your future as well. You need to just get a grip on your emotions and push yourself to work harder.
Easier said than done, obviously. But you can find that resolve somewhere within you. Just look hard enough.
Re: the boyfriend - I don’t really know what to say to this… except maybe have you tried talking to a counselor or something? I can’t tell you why it is he still has an impact on your life, nor have I had any such experience. Talk to a professional about it - there could be some underlying reasons.
Sorry my answer was all over the place… I guess what I’m trying to say is that you’re definitely not alone in the way you feel. I’ve made a lot of excuses for myself too. But it’s time to own up to them and find ways to improve on yourself and grow. And I know you have the courage and strength in you to push through this. Just don’t give up. Good luck, I’m rooting for you! <3
Anonymous asked: Only becuz it really can be more useful.
I already googled. And I got a lot of generic answers. Sometimes tumblr peeps always have useful experiences to share ?? That’s why I asked. I’m not stupid, you know…
yo homies i need help. i havent worn my retainers in a while but i put them on today and they’re making me gag all over the place i dunno what to do omfg helppp how do i make my gag reflex go away
psa 2 my ladies if u ever feel like wearing leggings as pants just fuckin do it- i did it 3 days in a row this week and i feel GREAT
Anonymous asked: I checked number of pages you have. If you do the math for 23,000 post and 15 post per page you will get a wrong answer. Keep in mind I used mobile version to check number of pages. I was responding to your post about What people think when they look at your blog. 1st post got lost or you did post it... um..
Lol cuz I rounded up. I have 22,900++ posts. But why did you need to go to my last page to respond to that question?! And also my posts are all there? Idk?
Anonymous asked: Till date you have 1528 pages, and started in month of Feb not sure which year... To be continued.
?? I’m confused haha what is this about? Are you trying to find out how many pages my blog has? I have almost 23,000 posts - and each page contains a maximum of 15 posts. You do the math ;)
i want 2 get ‘be kind’ tattooed across my forehead so that when i walk around ppl can see it and be reminded
y’all are so nice hsajhfjkg idk what to say thank u for being so kind to me it means so much i’m doing much better today thank you!!!!!
Anonymous asked: Hello, please stay strong <3 I and soooo many others love and care about you <3 I know things are so hard now but they will get better, I believe there is an incredible future waiting for you :) You are so kind and amazing, you are enough, more than enough, you are beyond perfection <3 This world needs you, please stay strong :) <3
THANK YOU SO MUCH oh gOD this is so nice I LOVE YOU !!!!!!
smile-youre-amazing asked: VEE YOU ARE A BADASS MOTHERFUCKING AMAZING PERSON LIKE BETTER THAN PUPPIES AND RED VELVET CUPCAKES AND ICED COFFEE AND GOSH DARN IT YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY BECAUSE YOU ARE THE LOVELIEST MOST JOYFUL, GENUINE AND INTERESTING PERSON IN THE WORLD SO GIVE YOURSELF A HUG AND APPRECIATE YOURSELF. that is all.
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